In the world of social media we see a constant stream of “clean eating” meals, sweaty selfies after intense workouts, and transformations. It can be hard to listen to what you actually want to eat. And to find food freedom.
It’s hard to eat intuitively in our society that’s full of nutrition facts and health obsession.
Many of my clients have a goal to build a healthy relationship with their body and listen to it. But it can seem near impossible with external rules and food facts getting in the way. In fact, many of my clients know more about exact calories in foods or the newest food trends than I do.
Unlearning necessary for food freedom
When I discovered Intuitive Eating, I had to consciously let go of nutrition facts and “unlearn” a lot of health facts in order to listen to my own body. When I did that, I started to build trust in my body’s wisdom and its natural cues, and get comfortable feeding myself without overanalyzing every bite.
Too often, nutrition and health turn into an obsession and your entire lifestyle. Instead of being only one beneficial part of your amazing life. By letting go of the obsession, you can go start to trust your body again. And rebuild your relationship with food in order to nourish your mind, body, and soul.
Here are four starting steps I recommend:
1. Take inventory of your nutrition, health, or weight control “tools”
Take a look around your house for body and food scales, diet or health books, or tons of workout videos or equipment. Browse through your social media sites and the people you follow – are you constantly seeing food, meals, workouts, body transformation pictures, or health obsessive messages? Yes, many health books or workout videos may be useful to help you learn to take care of your body. But removing them at first can be incredibly helpful to create a new relationship with food in the future.
2. Take a look at each, and ask how it makes you feel.
Do you feel ashamed of yourself when you see others’ perfect meals or bodies after working out? And do you end up changing how you eat or feel about yourself after weighing yourself?
3. Start to gradually get rid of or hide these tools.
Unfollow people on social media or stop reading blogs that are encouraging disordered eating behaviors. Move your scale out of your room, or get rid of it. Try a scale smash! Donate old diet books. Start to open up space and energy in your life.
4. With this new time and energy in your life, explore other hobbies and passions.
Read fiction books. Study a foreign language. Explore a new hobby, or rediscover one that you loved in the past. Perhaps art, writing, or photography. Make plans with friends. Get outside your comfort zone in a safe way.
By removing these tools that support disordered eating thoughts and behaviors, you create space to explore new things in your life, because there is time to focus on other things rather than thinking about food your entire day.
It also allows you to explore your creativity and create a life outside of your eating disorder.
It’s still important to challenge your thoughts and beliefs around food. But it’s easier to do that when you’re not constantly bombarded with pictures of food, dietary extremes, and facts. By removing these tools, you can start to trust your own body and challenge the food rules you’ve picked up over time.
Start this today! Open your favorite social media app, and start to evaluate and unfollow people as necessary. Follow Recovery Warriors or myself if you haven’t, then get off the internet, and explore the world!